Your Becoming is a (4) session private coaching retainer reserved for those who have completed the full arc (the Audit, the Unbecoming, and the Homecoming) and who have arrived at the threshold where the inner work becomes the outer life. You have named the conditioning, scripts, expectations that were never yours. You have stripped it. You have reconstructed the truth beneath it. You have excavated, reconstructed and now it’s time to express the authentic You.
Moving fully into Pillar IV, Ignited, this is where the self you have chosen stops being practiced in the safety of a session room and begins to be lived out loud: in your work, your relationships, your voice, your choices, your presence in a room. The resistance that arises here is not identity confusion. You know who you are. The resistance here is the resistance of visibility, of letting the world see the version of you that was always true, without shrinking back into the smaller story that used to feel like safety.
This is not becoming someone new. This is becoming who you always were . . . fully, out loud, and without apology.
Every client arrives at this threshold at a different pace and with a different depth of readiness. This retainer honors that. Sessions are not restricted by calendar. We stay in the work for as long as you need, and we move forward only when you are genuinely ready. The work is never rushed toward an outcome. It is paced toward completing your embodiment.
What’s Included:
(4) Private 1:1 Coaching Sessions — Four 1-hour sessions structured around full-body embodiment of chosen identity, expressed belief and values, relational and vocational realignment, and the activated sense of purpose that now guides daily life.
Full Arc Integration — Every session draws directly from the client's complete excavation (Unbecoming) and reconstruction (Homecoming) history.
Expression & Visibility Work — Specific coaching on how the authentic self shows up in the client's actual contexts: in professional environments, close relationships, creative pursuits, and public presence. This is where chosen identity meets real friction.
Goal Setting & Accountability — Create and support the completion of actionable items that allow for full integration of your new Self into the world
Somatic & Nervous System Embodiment — The body learns the new self through repetition, not conviction. Every session includes embodiment anchors that give the nervous system lived experience of operating from the chosen identity rather than the conditioned one.
Hypnotherapy — Targeting the subconscious resistance as you step fully into visibility.
The Becoming Recalibration Session — A complimentary 60-minute session 30 days after completion: a witness and a compass check. Not a fifth coaching session
You’ll Walk Away With:
An embodied identity — The self you named in the Homecoming has become the self that now shows up.
Freedom from the performing self — The gap between who you are privately and who you present publicly has narrowed to something you can honestly stand inside. You are no longer managing the distance between your truth and your expression of it.
Clarity of voice and expression — You know what you believe, what you value, and what you will and will not do. You speak differently. You exude confidence in who you are.
Aligned vocation and contribution — Your work, your offerings, or your next professional chapter is now oriented toward what genuinely calls you, rather than what once felt safe to want. The unlived life is no longer a longing. It is a direction being walked.
Embracing and loving your perfectly imperfect self — You realize that every part of you (your strengths and weaknesses) create a synergistic power that only you can execute and make an impact in this world. You are wonderfully and beautifully created!
A living relationship with your Human Design — Strategy, Authority, and Signature are no longer concepts from a reading. They are the actual rhythm of how you make decisions, conserve energy, and know when you are on or off course.
Best for:
Your Becoming is designed for those who have completed the full prior arc and have substantially stripped down to their core and are ready to start fully living as their authentic selves.
You know who you are. You have chosen it, consciously, in a room with a witness. What you need now is not more excavation, not more reconstruction, but the specific support of making that self visible in your work, in your closest relationships, in your creative or vocational expression, in the way you carry yourself through an ordinary Tuesday.
This retainer is not for those at the beginning of their inner work. It is not a shortcut to identity or a bypass of the grief the prior phases required. It is the natural final arc for the client who has done what the Unbecoming Audit, the Unbecoming, and the Homecoming asked of them, fully, honestly, without rushing to the finish line before the work was done.
